In order to bring back a lost love, you must answer some tough questions. The first question you must ask is: Why did we break up in the first place? Was it because of miscommunication, or was it because of something you did in particular? Knowing this answer will give you a head start on your journey back.

The next question you must answer is: are you still in love with them? If the answer is yes, then you need to determine if this is something that can be fixed or is it so far gone that the the relationship would never have a chance. If it can be fixed, then you
must try to become friends again. Why? Because all great relationships have two things in common, friendship and romance, both of which you need to start rebuilding.

Beware, that winning your lost love back is not done in an instant. This most definitely will take some time, but, if you are still in love with them and you’re thinking long term then this shouldn’t be a problem. Saving the friendship is the best way to get the ball rolling.

You must try and make it as casual as possible. Try not to make it obvious that you want to jump right back into the relationship. Rather, share some secrets that you wouldn’t normally share. Gain their trust back, do things you both like to do together, whether it’s playing golf or going to the movies. Remember, the goal is to rebuid the friendship before the romance.

By becomiing friends again you are slowly getting closer and closer to each other. There will come a time when you will be able to flirt with them again, but you must be the judge of that. Don’t rush into it, start off slowly, build friendship then romance will follow and you will win your lost love back again.

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